Guest77 wrote:Ratburntro44 wrote:Personally, I am neutral in that argument, but feel it ought to be argued.
Throwing myself under the bus here, but as someone who identifies as 'gay,' that is offensive, regardless of the opinion of whether or not 'straight' males believe it to be. Urban Dictionary, too, is not a website that gives any validity to the usage of the term as an insult.
I myself, as a straight male do not take offence to being called gay, but I feel hurt when people use the word "gay" in that way. It is not meant for that use and should not be done so.