Love Sucks (Or at least is confusing)

[clan ghost bear]

If you love someone, let them go.
if they come back, then you two are meant to be.

I know the feelin' bro, feel like there is nothing left to live for, hopeless, etc?
everyone elses advise is okay.
listen, your not alone in this world, find out why she broke up with you.
If it's over something stupid then you two shouldn't be.
if it's something else, fix it if possible, but remember this, she is supposed to
love you for you, you should act like someone you aren't or anything like that.
okay?

[royalblue]

The loss that you feel when someone close to you is gone, when it seems like it's time to give up... It's terrible. But you must know three things.

First, nothing is ever lost for good unless you let yourself lose it. It's always your choice where you go and if you make a mistake, it is even more so your right to try and fix it.

Second, when one thing does end, it does not mean that everything else is done. You have the past to learn from, the future to look forward to, but most importantly is the present, which is yours to claim.

And finally, you must believe there is always more good than bad. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.

Best of luck to you, of course, and may each new day be brighter than your last.

[necrocat219]

I was on the other end of the stick - I broke up with my girlfriend a while ago because of difficult circumstances then tried to enjoy myself, fancying someone else too but staying friends with her as well. I then realized that later I couldn't match the love that we shared together and that we weren't grown up to be able to cope with our closely-knit relationship and we just slowly gave each other more attention until I declared my mistake and how much I really love her. I'm with her in a really strong relationship now and we help each other through thick and thin.

Tl;dr If you two are meant to be together, she'll see that she can't fall out of love with you and only time will be able to mend this. If you aren't meant to be together then there will be a point where you realize that the relationship of ex's completely dissipates and you are left as two best friends

[Vortex_Master]

I thank you all for taking the time to reply. I will take most of your advice.
It was all really helpful and I am so glad to be a part of this community.

I wish you all a good day. I will update you if things get better. (Not that you need to know, but I feel I should tell you if your advice helped.)

[clan ghost bear]

your welcome, and I will be happy for the updates.
Good luck.

[hicksy17]

Hope things get better for you

[Vortex_Master]

Well, she is even more upset than me. She is acting very wierd, and won't talk to me. I, on the other hand, have admitted defeat and seen that it just must not have been ment to be. I see that I overreacted to the break up. Though I still care about her and wish she would act more like her old self.

[clan ghost bear]

Well, she is even more upset than me. She is acting very wierd, and won't talk to me. I, on the other hand, have admitted defeat and seen that it just must not have been ment to be. I see that I overreacted to the break up. Though I still care about her and wish she would act more like her old self.

Well tough luck, but try doing something like leaving her a gift or something ,she seems really upset and just leaving her like that wouldn't be the most gentleman thing you can do, sure your not together, but just be a good friend or person and help out just a bit.

[Vortex_Master]

I've tried so much already. Even wrote a poem. She unfriended me on facebook. :/
She told me to leave her alone and all I could say was "As you wish."

(If you've seen the Princess Bride, you'd understand.)

[clan ghost bear]

sorry... Well, You must have somehow hurt her badly or your linked to something that hurts her...
just best keep away from her... she needs space...