I completely agree with most of posters in this thread.
I prefer free for all. I know it's not the only way to play VW. You like to ally ? fine.... BUT...
One thing is probably best for everyone: FAIR PLAY. Ever heard about it ? Noticed how chat can actually get friendly when all play fair ?
So only change 1 thing in your attitude, and it might get better: claim clearly, openly, before game starts (when waiting for it to start, or just when map appears), who your ally (allies) is (are). Just try it once.
And you'll discover that:
- people will go less mad, at least not ban you
- allying openly before people first pick starting land (all the rest being unfair for some players at least) is not such a great advantage

But you probably already know for the 2nd point, which is, maybe
