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Love Sucks (Or at least is confusing)

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 3:17 pm
by Vortex_Master
My girlfriend broke up with me. I am in a deep depression and I felt the need to tell all of you this. I still love her. :cry:
She had me listen to Already Gone by Kelly Clarkson. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFG8OAHn65c :cry:

Any advice to get me to stop throwing up and crying? My family is worried.

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 3:21 pm
by Lopdo
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If there is slightest chance to get back together, go for it, if not, go find yourself new one. That's what I am trying to do right now

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 3:28 pm
by Vortex_Master
Lopdo wrote:If there is slightest chance to get back together, go for it, if not, go find yourself new one. That's what I am trying to do right now


I'm hoping to get her back. But I just don't know... She broke up with me because she thought she was hurting me and that she didn't deserve me. But I know she still loves me too... I am just gonna prove her wrong. She made me so happy. I have pictures to prove it. I hope I get to her in time though.

I'm just trying to focus on the happy memories. I won't forget her, because I told her we would be friends no matter what happened. That was the first promise I made.

I'm glad to have your simpathy Lopdo. I wish you luck.

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 4:32 pm
by hicksy17
You should talk to her about any issues that both of you felt during the relationship and seeing if you are able to fix these problems. Then you can attempt to work the relationship again. The one problem I've noticed in relationships is a lack of communication. Usually one partner will suffer a problem but will wear a false smile on their face when around their partner, friends and family and not tell them about the issue until its too late or discovered by another person. What you and your partner need to do is have a private talk/chat daily or at regular intervals throughout the week telling the whole truth of stuff that concerns/worries you or of problems you have. That way both you and your partner can solve the issue before it becomes major and live a stress free and happy relationship.

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 5:19 pm
by Joshua
Depends what she broke up with you for. Try and fix whatever that is, then go ask her out again. That's what I did when my girlfriend broke up with me. It worked.

EFFACÉ

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 5:42 pm
by Ozserf
EFFACÉ

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 6:22 pm
by techgump
Life has a lot to do positioning, though often it can be mostly subconscious. You have positioned yourself as the victim, and your mental attachment to her is not healthy for you. My recommendation, do not chase. Mindset: You are the alpha. Take this opportunity to reflect on yourself and better yourself in the ways you feel is best for you; not others. If you put 100% faith in yourself, and 100% focus on yourself. You'll be the best man anyone could ask for, and you'll generally get what you want naturally (unless you like being the victim). If someone doesn't want you, that's their problem. Carry your head high, and stand tall. Lead your life; do not react it.

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 6:39 pm
by Terracotta Army
Maybe... find peace, unity and self-love within your own being. Explore the subtler layers of yourself which reside in the other realms and dimensions which are so very close to this 3D world and our 3D body.

If that fails... get into the mindset that you will never need or want another women in your life; consider yourself off-limits to all women. Then watch as the women around you suddenly want you so much... maybe.

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 6:57 pm
by Lopdo
Terracotta Army wrote:Maybe... find peace, unity and self-love within your own being. Explore the subtler layers of yourself which reside in the other realms and dimensions which are so very close to this 3D world and our 3D body.


are telling him to masturbate more?

Re: Love Sucks

PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:21 pm
by Terracotta Army
Lopdo wrote:
Terracotta Army wrote:Maybe... find peace, unity and self-love within your own being. Explore the subtler layers of yourself which reside in the other realms and dimensions which are so very close to this 3D world and our 3D body.


are telling him to masturbate more?


That... is what you got from my post :?