Fangfallen wrote:Whining is something that we all do, but the question is why? When you whine nothing really happens other than you sounding like a baby. And if you sound like a baby then you are probably going to be treated like one. But seriously, why do people whine?
When you whine your problems don’t get solved because you are spending all your time whining instead of fixing. So the next time you are upset and are about to whine, do the following:
Take all the IF’s and BUTs out of your head. It doesn’t matter if Trixie or Biff had a better outcome; this is you we are talking about and not them.
Think about the situation and why it happened the way it did.
If another party was involved, think about the situation from their perspective. If another party was not involved, think about the situation from a neutral perspective (I know this is hard, but you can do it).
List out all the possible ways you can potentially change the situation to be favorable for you.
Try and fix the situation using one of the ways you listed out. If things go your way, that’s great. If things don’t go your way or if the situation can’t be changed, then learn from it and move on.
Life is not perfect and we all whine about things (even me), but you’re more likely to succeed if you think about things from a logical perspective instead of an emotional whiny perspective.
PS: Hopefully it didn’t sound like I was whining about people whining.
Look I am not going to get into a "thing" here about this. I will not call you insults the way you tried to insult me.
But the fact is, it is a legitimate complaint about how the game sucks for me because I always get 2x teamed. This literally ruins the game for me, and makes me not want to play.
So yes maybe I was "whining" a little bit, but I was frustrated and I have a good point.
.... ALSO your message DOES come off as you whining about players whining which makes you a hipocrit. You also said:
"because you spend all your time whining"
...This was my first complaint ever and it took me about 30 second. Your reply however must have taken longer... Which again makes you a hipocrit.
Again, I just want to play fair and not get 2x teamed. If you have a problem with me saying this, then I would suggest your probably one of these teamers/cheaters.